They've already done the inspection, prior to me even asking about the car. During that, they replaced the front pads, machined the rotors, replaced the windshield (I think), and the steering rack. The hidden dealer fee really put me off of this whole thing, but maybe I'm being too sensitive. Their "best price" including shipping was $1000 higher than my mental budget. I'd also want new rims on it too since I hate the look of those black ones, so that's something else to figure. I think the price is good, but this transaction is starting to give me a headache.
As you might be letting this idea sit of the shelf for a bit.
Send them a new offer.
Adjusted for the fees you want included (just dont tell them this).
Then let the Dealer Sweat it out if they want the sale.
You only have nothing to loose while you wait ...
the car has tax added so adjusting your new offer price is
something I would recommend.
Either that or perhaps give them your All-in Price (incl of tax/ship).
Whatever way they adjust the numbers is their problem then.
I did a new purchase with Wheaton-YEG in 2017 that way (all in price) with the Sales Manager as I was 3rd party for the buyer. Wheaton was not a fan of doing it this way but the buyer did not want all the BS and constant sales phone calls.
So Let the dealer sweat it ... contact the sales manager to let him know
if the salesperson doesn't appear to want to work with it "your way".
Used (and New) Auto Sales are not easy here in Alberta.
It's food for thought and I'm hoping for the
Best of Good Fortune in your endeavour ...
... Cheers !