Nah, your neighbor is operating on old information.
Modern turbo’s are stone axe reliable and make a NA engine pull like a freight train from idle to redline.
Same as people complaining about “turbo lag”. Essentially, it doesn’t exist anymore as a result of turbo sizing, variable nozzles, design advances, material choices, etc.
Take my F-150 ecoboost for example. 3.5 liters, 390 hp, 385 lb/ft. Straight off the showroom floor, crew cab 4x4 capable of high 13’s in the 1/4. Rated to tow 11,500 lbs and it will do it without breaking a sweat. Makes my old gmc diesel look like a puss. Throttle from idle makes it feel like the truck is attached to some huge rubber band that just keeps pulling harder and harder the more you stomp the peddle.
Give me a modern turbocharged engine any day of the week...