Jr, sorry I didn't click into this thread earlier. I'm a bit late to the party, but I'd like to add a couple of opinions here, and perhaps I can follow up with some help.
Does that vibration occur in every gear, or just at speeds above 140?
You mentioned that your transmission guy said that there is nothing that can cause a vibration there, but that is not true. Anything with moving parts can cause a vibration, and Ken (BabyRay) can attest that he had a vibration that was caused by the torque converter.
I can offer you some help, perhaps. I have a few cameras that we could set up on your car to monitor the back wheels through a few pulls to see if they vibrate. I can also set up the cameras underneath your car to watch both ends of the driveshaft, but I don't know if we'll be able to see anything because of the torque tube. Won't cost you anything but time (and gas), and as Spence mentioned, there is some lovely smooth pavement just north of Airdrie so that won't interfere with the camera footage.
Also, as Riley mentioned, can you see if the vibration goes away by putting the trans in neutral (on the fly at speed as it happens)? If the vibration goes away immediately, it is likely the torque converter.
If it happens above a specific speed whether it is in gear or not, I would suspect a balance issue somewhere between the driveshaft and the wheels.
If it happens at a certain rpm in each gear, I would look first to the torque converter as it is the biggest mass, but it could be the flexplate (doubtful), a bearing, or the input shaft.