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I actually thought that my son would want to be with me full time as he had expressed this desire before I moved to Fairview. But this never happened. The draw of the gaming console is strong in him it seems and unlimited time at his mom's trumps good parenting at my place it seems.

How old was your son when you got divorced? My son was under three and I give thanks that it happened then. I'd rather that it not have happened when he was older and his sense of family was stronger. The current situation is almost the norm for him.

I actually think that I have had a harder time with the divorce than he did. I am so embittered to my ex for having stolen 1/2 of the time with my son from 3 until 13 years old and counting............maybe that would be a plus were the divorce to have taken place when he was older?? All that extra time I could have been parenting him these past 10 years...........

Today is the day that I live for when again he is with me. Nothing can ever top an "Aidan Day" in my life!!!!!!!!

Cheers,

Garry

<blockquote data-quote="VelocityYellowRules!" data-source="post: 131812" data-attributes="member: 1318">I actually thought that my son would want to be with me full time as he had expressed this desire before I moved to Fairview.&nbsp; But this never happened.&nbsp; The draw of the gaming console is strong in him it seems and unlimited time at his mom&#039;s trumps good parenting at my place it seems.How old was your son when you got divorced?&nbsp; My son was under three and I give thanks that it happened then.&nbsp; I&#039;d rather that it not have happened when he was older and his sense of family was stronger.&nbsp; The current situation is almost the norm for him.I actually think that I have had a harder time with the divorce than he did.&nbsp; I am so embittered to my ex for having stolen 1/2 of the time with my son from 3 until 13 years old and counting............maybe that would be a plus were the divorce to have taken place when he was older??&nbsp; All that extra time I could have been parenting him these past 10 years...........Today is the day that I live for when again he is with me.&nbsp; Nothing can ever top an &quot;Aidan Day&quot; in my life!!!!!!!!Cheers,Garry</blockquote>

[QUOTE="VelocityYellowRules!, post: 131812, member: 1318"] I actually thought that my son would want to be with me full time as he had expressed this desire before I moved to Fairview. But this never happened. The draw of the gaming console is strong in him it seems and unlimited time at his mom's trumps good parenting at my place it seems. How old was your son when you got divorced? My son was under three and I give thanks that it happened then. I'd rather that it not have happened when he was older and his sense of family was stronger. The current situation is almost the norm for him. I actually think that I have had a harder time with the divorce than he did. I am so embittered to my ex for having stolen 1/2 of the time with my son from 3 until 13 years old and counting............maybe that would be a plus were the divorce to have taken place when he was older?? All that extra time I could have been parenting him these past 10 years........... Today is the day that I live for when again he is with me. Nothing can ever top an "Aidan Day" in my life!!!!!!!! Cheers, Garry [/QUOTE]

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