Just had a look for this relay in my '02 and there's no #44 relay there??Hey Willy.
To extend the life of these gears, and to stop the premature headlight openings.
Just remove the #44 relay behind the removable carpet piece at the front of the passenger foot well.
You will now have complete control over headlight function.
I just remembered you have an American car and it doesn't have the DRL's
Oh well good luck with your new gears.